Men have low self esteem and confidence too...

There is a lot of talk lately about increasing the self esteem and self confidence of women.  And I think this is important because I believe that the male/female energies are a bit weighted on the side of the male.  I also believe that balancing these feminine/masculine energies is what is bringing about the positive changes on the planet and its inhabitants.   
Having said that, Men have self esteem and self confidence issues also.   The way you can tell that you most likely have self esteem and self confidence issues are how well your life is working.   I have in past writings written about assessing your functioning levels in all areas by learning to know yourself, then making conscious efforts to learn about and improve in the areas most lacking.   With a man there is so much shame associated with a ‘life not working’ that it is difficult to seek help or even talk about it with anyone close to you.   And so we climb in our little self made shell never knowing how to get out.  There is a lot of help available.  Look for it:  On the book shelf, Google it, Ask God to help.  There are websites and websites on self esteem, self love, making your life work and so on.   You don’t have to settle as I did for a life where you marginally exist.   Make the intent to find out how to make your life work.  Then look for the signs and look for the assistance.  It is there...