With True Self Love You Will Just Be...

We are told to love ourselves but I am not sure how that feels.   In a quote from an online business journal the writer tries do differentiate between ego and self confidence.  “It's important to recognize the difference between being ego-driven and being self-confident. When you're self-confident, you know you're doing the right thing without violating the well-being of the people around you. When you're driven by your ego, you disregard everyone else.”
http://www.bizjournals.com/sanjose/stories/1999/01/25/smallb3.html
On yourdictionary.com self love is defined as ‘the belief you hold that you are a valuable and worthy person’.   They go on to state that ‘you have a positive view of yourself and are confident in yourself and your place in the world.’
So perhaps self love means knowing who you are and are confident in that but you don’t brag about it.   And if you become confident enough in who you are, what you believe and how you treat the world around you then you don’t even have to think about self love and self confidence.  You will just be.